If your child’s tutor is a relative, don’t expect anything else – 2024-02-26 23:53:24

Do not give smart phones to children! Such an event happened recently. An 11-year-old girl watched inappropriate images with a peer and had a serious nervous breakdown. His condition had become unmanageable. He says he will kill himself, he hates everyone. When his mother approached me, I said that of course we could not help without psychotropic drug treatment.

Publika.az reports that pediatrician Ayten Ismayilzade said these words. Addressing mothers and fathers, the doctor urged them to be careful:

“Thankfully, with the appointment of a pediatric neurologist, the child returned to normal. Now many will be interested in the question, what did the child see on the phone? It is not clear what he saw, the main thing is that the child was in such a crisis. His parents did not give the child a phone. This child attracted a peer. What’s the problem? Just like you don’t trust your child to someone you don’t know, don’t trust the phone. Allowing a child to spend time on the phone (long or short doesn’t matter) is giving a person the right to babysit for the child because he doesn’t know the morals and upbringing. The educator of our children is tik-tok , Instagram, Yutub, relatives and neighbors’ WhatsApp statuses, we will not be able to ask for anything else from them.

It should not be surprising that the number of suicides among children is increasing. Children do not perceive everything they see as we do. Because they don’t have our life experience. In real life, children see death, war, war, aggression, swearing, etc. Just as it’s unacceptable, it shouldn’t be in online life either. However, we grab the child’s arm and pull him aside in real life, unfortunately, we can’t pull the phone out of his hand, “We don’t have the strength.” Phone addiction is the main reason why children are impatient, distracted, without a plan, without a program, not interested in studying, and lazy. The colorful phone images dominating the mind capture their enthusiasm. If these images, writings, conversations are not suitable for them, it generally causes scandalous events in a child’s brain. The parents don’t know about it either. Because not every child comes and talks about what they see, either they are not aware of it, or they deliberately hide it. In both cases, toxic information takes root in the subconscious. This, like other traumas, poses a threat to mental health.”