If we know how to set a boundary, and use watching porn with discretion and moderation, then it can serve us without negative consequences.
1) Watching porn together will bring you closer
Hands down, it’s very likely that your partner is watching porn. But most men don’t really talk about porn, for two reasons. Either they don’t want you to take their porn viewing personally, or they’re embarrassed. Once you suggest that you want to watch porn together, your partner will be relieved. Suddenly, he discovers that he doesn’t have to hide anything from you. This openness and honesty strengthens the partner bond and mutual trust.
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2) You reveal your secret desires
It is not easy to tell your partner what sexual practices you would like to try. Porn will help you in this regard as well, by watching it you can indicate to your partner what you would like in bed. Maybe it will surprise you yourself. In research by Ann Summers, more than half of the women surveyed said that watching porn together with their partner gave them the confidence to ask for what they wanted in bed.
3) You will come up with new ideas
If you live in a long-term relationship, you certainly know that it is not easy to constantly come up with new and new sexual practices. A helping hand is offered by a porn film that can inspire you. Watching porn together encourages partners to try role-playing, new positions or actions they haven’t tried before. A little step out of the comfort zone is especially important for partners who have been together for a long time.
Changing views on sexuality
In the 11th century, the view of sexuality as something immoral changed. Until then, everything sexual was seen as one of the most natural things.
Everything in moderation!
Scientists from the Max Planck Institute in Berlin have discovered for the first time that regular viewing of pornography appears to physically damage the brain. People who watch porn too often are said to need more and more graphic material to achieve the same sexual stimulation. Therefore, if we want watching pornographic videos to benefit us, then a reasonable time interval of watching these videos is necessary. In addition, psychologist Lenka Šturmová points out that these titillating videos can revive the relationship rather if both of the couple watch them. “Porn can only spice up a relationship when it’s viewed by both and serves both at the same time.”
Did you know that…
The world’s largest porn site Pornhub has published statistics for 2019. While it reported 33.5 billion visits in 2018, in 2019 the counter stopped at 42 billion. This represents an increase of 25 percent. On average, each visitor spent 10 minutes and 28 seconds on sites with adult content.
