How can parents deal with their children’s wishes? SOS Family Tips has put together some tips.
Vienna (OTS) – Got a dog, or better yet, dog come here! Many children want a dog. A topic that comes up again and again, at the family table, on trips or walks. Now again, for many children on holiday it means: summer time. Play time. Outdoor time. What is missing? A four-legged friend, of course. Preferably a really cute, cuddly animal. Unfortunately, for several reasons, this wish is not as easy to fulfill as the young two-legged ones often imagine. Silvia Tomaschitz, social worker at SOS Children’s Villages and member of the family tips team, knows how we can approach the topic in a positive and conflict-free manner.
# 1 – Explain reasons
When explaining to your child why they can’t have a dog, speak in a way they can understand. The clearer you explain it, the better they will understand. Depending on the reasons, it may be helpful to speak to a veterinarian or expert together. For example, if it is not possible to have an animal due to allergies in the household, explain this to your child. If there are financial restrictions, discuss these openly. Living conditions are also a factor, as pet ownership may be prohibited. This must also be discussed with the child.
# 2 – Responsibility and time commitment
Make sure your child understands the responsibility that comes with having a pet. Talk about how they need to be fed and cared for daily, have regular vet check-ups, and need lots of time and attention. Dogs need regular walks, exercise, and playtime. Having a dog means making sure you have enough time for them. This can mean less time for friends or hobbies.
# 3 – Socially restricted
A dog can be a wonderful addition to any family, but it also comes with limitations. Everyday life is dominated by the pet. It can be difficult to have a dog when all family members have to work full-time. But things like going to restaurants or shopping trips also have to be well planned. The four-legged friends don’t feel comfortable or welcome everywhere. If you have a dog, it can be more difficult to travel. You have to take care of the dog while you are away and, if necessary, find suitable accommodation for the dog.
# 4 – Offer alternatives
There are many alternatives to a dog that can help children learn responsibility. Volunteering at an animal shelter can be a great way to care for animals and understand what it means to have a pet. Animal shelters also offer animal adoption. This means you can provide financial support for an animal, visit it, but don’t have to take it home. You can also choose a dog from the shelter and take it for walks, or help care for a neighbor’s or friend’s dog.
More tips for a successful family life:
www.sos-kinderdorf.at/familientipps & www.rataufdraht.at
Inquiries & Contact:
SOS Children’s Village
Claudia Hauboldt
+43 676 881 444 04
claudia.hauboldt@sos-kinderdorf.at
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