Maria Karystianou: Mourning that unites and separates

Behavioral scientists say that every individual can maintain loss and grief in totally other ways.

Every other cries, breaks down, shouts and some other lives his ache in a fully introverted approach with out even losing a tear. This doesn’t imply that one hurts extra and the opposite much less.

Nor that the one that mourns silently is dignified whilst the opposite isn’t. In truth it method not anything however that the human soul is an abyss.

Then again, scientists additionally say that underneath very disturbing, emotional, stipulations reminiscent of heavy bereavement, we categorical what we in point of fact are, the motivations of our lifestyles. However however, we do not price other people when they are underneath the burden of a crash.

This situation additionally issues Mrs. Maria Karystianou who misplaced her daughter in Tempi and was once the one that, a couple of months after the tragedy, got here ahead in entrance of the opposite households of the sufferers.

She charged herself with the obligation (sacred for a mom who tries to vindicate her kid’s reminiscence) of combating in order that not anything of what took place at the fateful night time is roofed up, justice is served, and the ones she considers in charge are punished.

She spoke, in tears, to the individuals of the Fee of Inquiry on Tempi, denounced cover-ups, referred to persistent pathologies of the state gadget, demanded instant solutions from the High Minister, reached the Ecu Parliament, led the marketing campaign to assemble signatures (which exceeded one and a part million) for the lifting parliamentary immunity, named the ones accountable, did the whole lot he may but in addition what he gave the impression not able to take action that the tragedy of Tempe would now not be registered within the collective reminiscence merely as a “date of mourning”.

The mood of most of the people tuned in along with her. He even touched at the etymological which means of the phrase.

It was once the “conduit” to channel their anger in opposition to majority establishments, establishments, individuals, to precise our perennial nationwide criticism that the state leaves the electorate on the mercy of “let’s move anyplace it is going”.

And so Maria Karystianou emerged as an emblem in an technology that turns out to want them.

And that, possibly, she additionally wanted it, if simplest to control the loss. Her statements reminiscent of when she “meets” her daughter, she can have finished the whole lot to make certain that there’s no extra injustice, displays a mom who believes that she will, in reminiscence of her kid, trade the arena.

In the previous couple of days, Maria Karystianou was once once more within the information and now not just for her presence within the Ecu Parliament the place she denounced the proposal for Apostolos Tzizikostas to take over the Delivery portfolio on the Fee whilst, throughout this govt, the deadly coincidence in Tempe has happened.

The explanation was once the dispute that broke out with the opposite households of the sufferers concerning the live performance the next Friday in Kallimarmaro.

A live performance for Tempi that, at the digital poster, does now not specify if it is being held as a protest, in reminiscence of the sufferers or for monetary give a boost to in order that the case has the give a boost to of overseas attorneys – there may be, alternatively, a price ticket of 15 euros.

An argument that turns out to have served as an instance to publicly categorical the disagreements, divisions and conflicts simmering between the households in regards to the control of the reminiscence in their lifeless and their prison give a boost to.

The sequel simplest led to grief. The criticism that Maria Karystianou represents an affiliation to which simplest six households belong whilst maximum others disagree along with her movements, the general public recriminations, the posts on social media, the movies trivialize a case this is our nationwide trauma. They flip her right into a gossip with display biz codes.

Maria Karystianou, Nikos and Dimitris Plakias, the opposite households have the fitting to stroll in combination or one after the other with out this differentiating their ache. Additionally, the households who’ve expressed a powerful confrontation with having a price ticket to a live performance for his or her lifeless, have the fitting to not need the reminiscence in their other people to be valued in euros.

Mrs. Karystianou additionally has the fitting to guide any live performance without or with a price ticket.

However, so long as there’s a price ticket, the income must be controlled, with entire transparency, through a managed entity, in any case, that is what the households around the boulevard requested for.

As a result of it is going to now not be little since the price of a live performance the place the artists take part non-profitably, is roofed, after taxes are deducted from 10,000 tickets and right here most probably greater than 40,000 will likely be reduce. And people who participate within the live performance must actually have a sense for his or her control.

As a result of anything would belittle the significance of this tragedy.

In a different way, and regardless of the truce between the 2 facets, let’s all pay attention to Alma Lata who misplaced her daughter in Tempi: “My Mary” she mentioned on Reside Information “please decrease the tone, I do know you might be in numerous ache like me […] Our children hang around up there. Glance up and notice that they’re unhappy. They aren’t proud that their moms argue.”