So what is the male orgasm and how do men experience it? What things did we as women not know about experiencing sexual ecstasy? You might even learn and the acquired knowledge will help you in practice.
What is a male orgasm and how long does it last?
In pornographic films, it is usually the main finale, what the whole film is leading to, whether a woman has an orgasm, unfortunately does not play such a big role for us. Fortunately, in the real world, everything is not like in porn movies. First, a man has to get excited and thereby achieve an erection, then everything depends mainly on the brain. Orgasm is the work of the sympathetic nervous system activated by all five senses. It is an interplay of brain, brainstem, and spinal cord, stimulated by touch, smell, sound, and everything that happens before his eyes. The orgasm then lasts for a different time depending on the individual or the situation. Mostly it’s in the range from a few seconds to half a minute.
How do men experience orgasm?
Everyone is an individual, just like women, everyone experiences orgasm differently. For some it’s a euphoric state, a small eclipse, for others it’s just great. Some people may feel tingling in the head or spine, extreme waves in the pelvic area and a release of sexual energy. During the sexual act, endorphins are released into the bloodstream, which we recognize very quickly because we feel happy and relaxed after sex. A male orgasm is also accompanied by the ejaculation of semen. However, some boys can reach orgasm before their semen begins to form, and thus their first orgasms can be without ejaculation.
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What are the types of male orgasm?
Basically – as far as brain activity is concerned – an orgasm is just an orgasm, this is definitely no different. If we look at the matter from the point of view of perceptions, then there are clear differences. It depends on the stimulation, the way the penis is stimulated, and whether we touch other parts of the body during orgasm. So the orgasm from oral teasing is different than from penetration or masturbation. Men, unlike us women, have much stronger experiences when they are younger, and with age the experience decreases. Of course, various diseases also have an effect on it.
Can orgasm be achieved without ejaculation?
As already mentioned, boys who do not yet produce sperm can reach orgasm without ejaculation, but it can also be done by an adult man. If the muscles that men use to hold back their urine tighten as the semen makes its way out, it also prevents sperm from escaping during orgasm. It’s definitely a skill that needs to be practiced, but it can be done. Dry orgasm, as it is called, exists.
What is the difference between male and female orgasm?
When we talk about male and female orgasm, we always look for differences in how we experience it. As far as the technical side is concerned, there is basically no difference. Studies that have measured brain activity in men and women during orgasm show that both sexes are equally affected in many areas. Of course, how the body works and how the brain works are also two different things, and again, it’s very individual.
Can men experience multiple orgasms?
If there is any difference between female and male orgasm, then it is how many we can experience during one sexual session. Women are better off in this case, although there are many women who can experience orgasm only during masturbation, others have never experienced orgasm – this does not happen to men… Some men can experience multiple orgasms. After sex, there is usually a certain period of time after which they can have intercourse again. And this can last from a few minutes to several days, with age this period increases.
Can men enhance their orgasmic experience?
It doesn’t matter if a man is capable of multiple orgasms or not, but it is clear that orgasm can be experienced a little differently in each situation. The strength of the experience is also derived from the amount of testosterone, so orgasms are more violent in youth than in later life. If a man has several orgasms per day, his experiences will gradually be less intense than after a longer sexual fast. Also the method that is called edging, enhances the experience. It is delaying the climax until the maximum. But who would measure it in the end, after all, orgasm is one of the best feelings that exist in life, so why not just enjoy it? And forget the scales…