If you want to be happy, stop asking people these ten questions

By the way, a question is half knowledge if it is for understanding, but if the purpose of the question is something else, it may cause you to not even know and hurt someone’s heart.

It may also happen that someone gets angry after hearing the question which you are considering as simple and may even cause a conflict of interest.

Here are some questions that can and do bother many people:

When will you get married?

Hey, marriage will be done when it has to be done, neither will it be done by asking you, nor by taking your permission. If our parents ask this question, it is appropriate or the people who are close to you in life, this question is only for those who really love you.

How much is the salary?

This question is one of those questions that is very wrong to ask. Meaning, if the salary is low, you will help me financially, or if the salary is high, you want a share? This question is not appropriate in any case. Whatever the salary is, it should be halal, if the rest is the same, then pray and not question.

How old is it?

This question is as bitter for girls as the question of salary for boys. What will you do no matter how old you are? Will you stop it from increasing or reduce the age in Nadra’s record? And what arrow did you shoot after being so old? Focus on your life and not on our age.

When will you tell the good news?

Asking the aunts to the newly married couple and doing it in the next month of the wedding, when will you announce the good news? When will you make the papu? Hey, what do you mean so fast, the wedding took place just yesterday, let them enjoy now, I don’t know why you are in such a hurry. Thank you for not asking on the wedding day where are your good news?

Did you get a job?

This question is like a needle prick to the unemployed. Hey, if the job will be done, it will be told by itself or it will be guessed by itself. If the job seeker is really looking for employment then this question will be painful for him and if any hood is haram then this question is not a question, leave it as it is.

How much do you earn?

You should not ask this question to a businessman, if you want to know, you should judge from his lifestyle. Anyway, what do you need to know, do you want a share in their property? Meaning why this question? You have worked hard day and night and now if you are financially stable then who are you to ask questions?

Why has the weight increased so much?

Either the poor/poor person is already worried (and believe me, they themselves know that they are gaining weight and are thinking of solving this problem) on top of that you are rubbing salt in the wounds. have been and are embarrassing them by paying attention to them in the crowded gathering.

Why are the numbers down?

This question is very painful, especially for board exam kids, and it is often parents whose children have scored well who ask this question. By the way, the one whose result will be good, he himself or his father will tell him under some pretext. But if a child is not able to tell his result, it means that there is something wrong with the number, then let him go, why do you want to rub salt in someone’s wounds.

Have you thought about the future?

Hey sir, have you ever thought about the future and what you thought did it all turn out the way you thought? A complete environment is necessary to determine the future and one who has that environment gradually moves towards his destination. Well, if you are so worried about the future, instead of asking a question, tell your experience so that it can guide you.

Why did so-and-so get ahead of you?

Comparing and doing it in front of people is rebellious and demotivating anyway, everyone’s ability is different and everyone achieves success at their own pace. Comparing one person to another is like breaking personality. Especially native mothers and some native fathers also do this when they scold the child and compare it to the neighbor’s child and this discourages the child.

Why do you look so ill?

It’s one thing to condole with someone who’s sick, but you can put anyone under pressure by asking this question in a crowded room. That poor guy, if he is healthy, will get tension for free by listening to you.

So, in order to be happy and share happiness, it is necessary to suppress your unnecessary and harmful curiosity. Thank you!