Really strong orgasms are a matter of release and relaxation. You must therefore be ready to venture into the unknown, stop controlling yourself and let yourself be carried away. Multiple orgasms are a matter of the mind, because – as they say – a woman’s orgasm is inhibited by the woman herself if she cannot relax enough.
1. Wait at least 20 minutes
A man’s stamina is an essential parameter to satisfy a woman. The average man lasts between three and seven minutes before climaxing, while women need ten to twenty minutes. So there is such a time window. You can prepare for this with a foreplay that will be oriented towards you. Another point of our guide is related to this.
2. Don’t think about orgasm
Your partner surely wants nothing more than for you to orgasm. It fills him with pleasure and excites him to see you in a state of total euphoria. Most lovers are patient and like to give women as much attention as they deserve. However, women themselves sometimes have a problem with accepting this attention. If you think to yourself “it’s taking me a long time, he must be tired”, then forget about the orgasm – and the multiple one, by the way.
3. Focus on the clitoris as well as the vagina
Most women reach orgasm when a man gives them attention with his fingers or mouth, so you should make sure he knows how it works. Show him how much you like it and then let him explore and play with you. For many women, the best combination of oral sex and stimulation with fingers inside the vagina is incomparably the best. Logically – you get double stimulation in these ways. This will lead you to your first orgasm for sure.
4. Speak calmly and rudely
While men are very visually oriented, we women are more easily aroused by touch and sound sensations. That’s why you should definitely not be silent in bed! Pleasure moaning is allowed not only for women, but also for men. In addition – if your partner whispers to you during sex how beautiful you are and how the sight of you excites him, or even something more peppery, it will definitely be much easier for you to reach orgasms.
5. Rest after orgasm
After the first orgasm, you should take a moment to breathe. When you are excited, you may, like many people, tend to hold your breath or breathe very shallowly. If you learn to deepen your breathing, regular exhalations and inhalations will help you to deepen your sexual pleasure.
6. How to climax during intercourse?
Once you have taken a break, resume intercourse. Once your partner is inside, keep stimulating the clitoris as well. There are very few women who can climax from internal stimulation alone. Vaginal orgasms are a matter of total relaxation, don’t be afraid to pee if you have the urge. Relax and you will know the sensation that will take your breath away. Once you know how, there is nothing stopping you from multiplying orgasms during one sex session.
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