I have been with my partner for 20 years. We had our two children in quick succession after eight years of marriage because it was difficult for her to get pregnant and he didn’t want to interfere too much with her career. But as soon as she returned to work after her second maternity leave, it was as if every sexual desire inside her was extinguished. And since our last five years together, we’ve barely been in a relationship.
Not that I’m obsessed with sex, but I still need it more than once every three months. Since I felt very good when I insisted a little too much that she didn’t like me, I gradually curbed my desire to fuck, until I met a woman exactly like me on a dating site.
We didn’t fuck the first time we met, but the second time was nice. Since then we have seen each other at least once a week in her apartment. In the year that all of this has lasted, I realize that she meets everything I want in a partner, and it seems to be the same for her.
Since I had sworn to her that as soon as I was sure of my success with her I would separate from my wife, she urged me to do so. I just don’t know how to tell the mother of my children that it’s over between us, I’m so afraid that she will deprive me of seeing them. What do we do in a case like mine to avoid losing a new love by extending the deadlines?
Lery
Since you seem certain of your love for this new partner, the only way to do things right is to tell your wife, tactfully and sensitively, that you have someone else in your life. Letting things drag on won’t add anything to the fact that, in the end, your decision to leave her is made up. The operation will not take place without arousing many emotions, but the more you do things logically and delicately, the less your relationships with your children will deteriorate. Courage and good luck!
2024-01-19 00:41:13
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