It is said that women can do it better by themselves with their hands, on the other hand, many women prefer the tongue. Anyway, we advise you to give men a chance in this regard.
Clit massage
If we are not excited enough, and therefore do not produce our own lubrication, the partner needs to use a lubricating gel. The clitoris is really sensitive and repeated dry rubbing would do more harm than good. The partner should also proceed very carefully and gently when massaging the clitoris. Start with gentle circular movements and increase the pressure and intensity of the movement according to how you react.
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Sliding
As the name of this technique already suggests, the partner will slide his fingers over the clitoris and the entire surrounding area. It is also crucial for this activity that you are sufficiently excited and wet. Of course, there are lubricants to help keep things running smoothly. Then his caresses will be extremely pleasant for you.
Finger replacement
Your partner kneels between your parted legs and slides enough fingers into you to completely fill the space. The fingers then slide slowly and rhythmically out and in, simulating a penis and normal penetration. This technique is also good if the man is too fast in his performance and you are not yet satisfied.
Double pleasure
This technique takes a little practice, but anyone can do it. The point is that the partner simulates the copulatory movements of the penis with one hand and massages the clitoris with the other. Each hand is at a slightly different tempo. It is also up to you to correct him and tell him where to slow down and where to speed up.
Expedition to point G
This expedition will entertain not only you, but also your partner. If you don’t know where your G-spot is, go find it together. It is necessary to add, and it also applies to the previous instructions: our entire sexual organ is a very sensitive place, so pay attention to strength, speed and also to the nails. By slowly exploring the inner walls of your vagina, your partner may come across places you didn’t even know were there. The fingers are much easier to examine than the penis.
