Anna Geislerová (47): Mild terror and dictation benefit marriage and family | For women

If we were to list all the films in which Aňa appeared, three pages would definitely not be enough. At the moment, however, a novelty is entering cinemas, which is definitely worth paying attention to. Watching will make every hair on your body stand on end. The mysterious thriller Smršť, where she is seconded by the Slovak actor Tomáš Maštalír, is not only about a mysterious force that could be behind the death of several people. First of all, it is a probe into the crises of a marriage.

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What do you think can most fundamentally threaten the partnership?

Disinterest, when the two are not interested in each other, they do not perceive each other. In my opinion, it is also a bad indicator if the couple does not have joint plans for the future, if they cannot look forward to something, create something together, enjoy something. Common visions must never be missing.

Where does your tolerance end?

At this age, I can probably tolerate a lot. But violence, too much cowardice and hypocrisy never.

On the contrary, the basis of a good partnership after years is mainly what?

In my experience, it’s the little joys that add up to a nice life. The daily ability to enjoy at least a little something. It can also be relaxing together in the evening on the couch, you don’t even have to talk. At home, we liked pajama days and trips. I am also convinced that mild terror can turn into the best memory. I have in mind the situation where the family doesn’t want to go anywhere, but when they all climb the hill, they complain that they have blisters, but at the same time they are amazed by the beauty around them. After all, those blisters will eventually become just a funny story. I’m an expert at coming up with pointless trips where everyone screams that I ruined their lives, but in the end they’re happy. Mild terror and dictation also benefit marriage and the family in general. But like a true dictator, I don’t have it verified by the opposite party.

Do you feel like you have changed a lot as your man’s partner since you started dating?

Immutability does not exist. What does not change, does not live, is suspect. Life is chaos, movement. I’ve definitely changed and I’m definitely more fabulous. I’m kidding, but the truth is that I’m better at handling some things now. And my husband has changed a lot. From amazing to unbearably perfect. It’s hard to live with someone who has virtually no faults. But it definitely has nothing to do with me.

Your older children are slowly but surely flying out of the nest. How are you taking it? As a space to devote more time to yourself, or is it difficult for your soul?

Probably all together. As long as you’re in control of them to the point where you’re feeding them, putting them to bed, you’re always with them, and suddenly it’s different, it’s challenging, but it’s also rewarding and joyful. But if the children no longer deal with so many things with you, fear awakens and questions arise about whether they will be happy and satisfied, whether they will find their place in life, a job they will enjoy, partners they would like… And you are no longer in control of that. It’s a new parenting dimension. But when you see that the children are doing well, it’s a great feeling of happiness. I just hope that we will still have experiences together. And if not, my husband and I will drive alone. And my dreams and plans? I have never postponed them, nor my career. Each of my children was already on the set with me at two months. Now, however, I plan to slowly say goodbye internally to strenuous motherhood.