In particular, for parents of students in difficult circumstances, school leaders need to pay attention and support. The impact of an educational plan (measures, policies) creates multi-dimensional effects. Using the consensus vote of the majority to organize, leaving the minority behind, with pedagogy, the theory is also wrong but the situation is even more wrong. Leaving a child N. “lonely” at the party is the responsibility of the school’s school board of directors and is a common lesson for other schools that will organize parties for students.
We can look more broadly at other issues in the school environment. Specifically, tuition fees, funds… often have one or two parents who are determined not to pay. Schools cannot discriminate, much less angry parents who “slash” students.
Teaching people, the highest authority is to slowly inspire, the immutable principle is everything for the students. School leaders must overcome emotions and calculate revenue and expenditure to fully care for students whose parents still “turn their backs” on the school. That will help us be steadfast in our hundred-year career of “growing people”.
They were so angry that they lost their wits. N.’s parents were also partly at fault. Even sadder, she was the one who posted that information on social networks. What is the mother’s purpose when on the one hand she does not pay money, on the other hand she demands food and is upset because her child is being treated unfairly?
Let your child have fun at the end of the year with friends, and say goodbye to first grade, it’s something you should do, why refuse! Therefore, after venting their anger to the festival organizers, N.’s parents need to calm down, admit their shortcomings, influence and help their children calm down. So that next school year, many years from now, N. and his friends can attend a warm, fun and complete party with their fried chicken.
The story also reminded me of a memory when I was still standing on the podium. That year, I tutored L., a 12th grade student. She paid tuition regularly every month and often in small change. I heartlessly… accept. One time, having a cup of tea with friends, I learned that L. had a particularly difficult family background. His mother is terminally ill, his father is mentally ill, and L. rents tea seeds to pay his tuition. I cried….
The following month, with the same coins, L. paid my tuition. I told her: “I’m sorry, I know…”. The teacher and student were silent, the lesson ended. I add profound lessons!
That memory taught me that what makes a teacher a teacher is love for students. The teacher must leave the podium and step closer to his students to listen, understand and share. Teaching profession – no matter how difficult it is, if our heart is always for students, we will create happy schools..
Like every incident that happens, fierce controversy arose on social networks, as did the story “1st graders are not allowed to party”. Some criticized the mother for not fulfilling her duty, just because of 100 thousand, leaving her child lost, others criticized the teacher for not being skillful in handling pedagogical situations.
We forgot about N. and the trauma she had to bear, especially after the story was posted on social networks and exploded public opinion in the past few days.
Please forgive the adults, my child!